the journey so far...
Jun. 22nd, 2022 11:50 amI have the sudden urge to journal but my hands are cramping pretty severely from carpal tunnel so my physical journal is out. Why not use this thing?
I've been feeling pretty down lately. Like can't leave the bed, wanna sleep all day, do nothing type of down. My energy is extremely low. My mood is pretty low, too. I started a new diet, cut out nearly all sodas and caffeine except for 1 or 2 cups a day and the random soda here and there, started getting more sun. Still feeling low, so I assume it's all in my brain.
Did a tarot reading just a few moments ago just to see where I needed to focus in my spiritual journey. The cards talked about balance, accepting that I'm open-hearted and extremely loving, recognizing the fact that I need to pause and reflect on how far I've come, and to let new beginnings arrive. So I want to reflect on my journey.
I'm nearly 34 years old now. And though sometimes it feels like I'm still stuck in my bedroom back at the trailer, I'm not there. I'm in stable housing, I have food, electricity, hot water, (mostly) stable inter-personal relationships, and I'm a damn good mom to my son. I have everything I need to survive, and that's what I'm doing. But that's the issue - I'm surviving, not thriving. I sort of become a blob of human flesh when Connor's not around. It's so hard for me to get up and do anything. When he's here, I become alive again. My spiritual journey so far has been more about me getting mentally healthy again and in a stable environment. This has happened for the most part, though I'm still mentally unwell, but I probably always will be. However, I'm much healthier than I was last year, 5 years ago, 10 years ago, 20 years ago. It honestly sucks that it's taken this long to get to this point, but I made it. And now I don't know how to thrive. I don't know how to care for myself other than, like, the bare necessities. I wash my ass, brush my teeth, comb my hair, drink water. But that's about it. I have (some) friends, my family is still trash, but that's to be expected.
When I was younger I wanted to get the rune for joy tattooed on my wrist so I would always know that there was joy somewhere in the world. Now I need to find that joy outside of my child. It's unhealthy to rely solely on him for joy.
My hands are cramping now so I must go but this gives me a lot of things to think on.
I've been feeling pretty down lately. Like can't leave the bed, wanna sleep all day, do nothing type of down. My energy is extremely low. My mood is pretty low, too. I started a new diet, cut out nearly all sodas and caffeine except for 1 or 2 cups a day and the random soda here and there, started getting more sun. Still feeling low, so I assume it's all in my brain.
Did a tarot reading just a few moments ago just to see where I needed to focus in my spiritual journey. The cards talked about balance, accepting that I'm open-hearted and extremely loving, recognizing the fact that I need to pause and reflect on how far I've come, and to let new beginnings arrive. So I want to reflect on my journey.
I'm nearly 34 years old now. And though sometimes it feels like I'm still stuck in my bedroom back at the trailer, I'm not there. I'm in stable housing, I have food, electricity, hot water, (mostly) stable inter-personal relationships, and I'm a damn good mom to my son. I have everything I need to survive, and that's what I'm doing. But that's the issue - I'm surviving, not thriving. I sort of become a blob of human flesh when Connor's not around. It's so hard for me to get up and do anything. When he's here, I become alive again. My spiritual journey so far has been more about me getting mentally healthy again and in a stable environment. This has happened for the most part, though I'm still mentally unwell, but I probably always will be. However, I'm much healthier than I was last year, 5 years ago, 10 years ago, 20 years ago. It honestly sucks that it's taken this long to get to this point, but I made it. And now I don't know how to thrive. I don't know how to care for myself other than, like, the bare necessities. I wash my ass, brush my teeth, comb my hair, drink water. But that's about it. I have (some) friends, my family is still trash, but that's to be expected.
When I was younger I wanted to get the rune for joy tattooed on my wrist so I would always know that there was joy somewhere in the world. Now I need to find that joy outside of my child. It's unhealthy to rely solely on him for joy.
My hands are cramping now so I must go but this gives me a lot of things to think on.